So this week has been much less stressful work wise. A month
in, I have all the material under my belt, but because of that I’ve had a lot
of trouble focusing. It’s tough to motivate myself to continue to put effort
into this music, because most of it is not very stimulating for the drums; kick
on 1&3, Snare on 2&4, 8s on the hi-hit, rinse and repeat. Because I’m
checked out of what I’m playing, I’ve been making silly mental errors. It’s
frustrating on the one hand, but the entire band messes up. Sometimes they make
huge, obvious errors, other times it is very subtle stuff, but when I make a
mistake, it is much more out in the open. Maybe I’m just more attuned to
recognizing percussive mistakes, but when I skip a beat, the audience knows.
When a horn player skips a beat, there are 4 other horns playing the same line, so the audience doesn't notice.
On Thursday, I ventured out into Belize for the first time.
There was a 15 minute boat ride into the port, and as we approached, the water
turned from the brilliant turquoise of Caribbean seas to the familiar, polluted
green-brown that I know from New Jersey. The area around the dock was your
standard tourist fare, cheesy t-shirts and souvenirs that bastardize the
indigenous culture for profit. The whole place reminded me of a mall, complete
with store-maps and unintimidating security. There was a marimba duo, a man
dressed up in Mayan garb, and tropical cabana-bars selling the local beer; the
whole place felt fake. So I wandered past the ominous, barbed-wire fence into
the real Belize.
Tourists shop for chocolate and diamonds at the Belize dock. |
The locals began eyeing me as soon as I left the docks. I
was white, had not tattered clothes and a backpack, so I must have looked like
a dollar sign to them. I was offered weed almost immediately, and then again.
It must have happened at least ten times during my time spent there. Two young
boys sat on the curb, banging on buckets and tin cans with sticks of driftwood.
A three legged dog wandered the streets,
begging for scraps and sifting through garbage. One dreadlocked man shook my
hand, “Good for you for coming out to see the locals,” he slurred in a deep
creole twang, “most tourists don’t venture out the gates,” I could see why.
Locals get off the bus in front of the courthouse. |
There was a bridge, one local told me that they called it the
money bridge, because on one side was the rich tourists, and the other side was
the crime filled ghetto. From the bridge, the economic disparity was flagrant,
with the run down fishing boats moored on one side, and the tourist charters on
the other.
Fishing boats from the "money bridge." |
When I crossed to the poor side, I was immediately approached by a
man who insisted he was a tour guide. I said no thanks, but he followed me and
began to tell me about a few of the sites around Belize City. Just like that, I
was swindled into a tour I didn’t want to pay for. We passed the old British courthouse back from the colonial days, long since abandoned by government officials. He pointed out St. John’s
Cathedral, the oldest church in Central America. Inside it felt more like a
museum than a prayer house, complete with mandatory donations to enter.
St. John's Cathedral |
He explained that Belize had a prime minister election the
day before. The Democratic Party had won, and the corrupt Dean Barrow was
re-elected. Remnants of the election still filled the city; signs painted in
red about the failures of Barrow’s administration were hung on lampposts and
banners displaying the voting results hung over main street. We passed the
prime minister’s office, an angular post-modern villa made of stucco that stood
out from the rest of the city’s run-down colonial architecture. As we finished
our loop, he pointed out a spot where there had been a gang killing few days
earlier.
Anti-Barrow campaign sign |
My self-appointed tour guide stopped following me
eventually, and I made my way back over the bridge, where I tried the local
beer in an open-air dive and made my way back to the ship. We played the repeat
guest’s party and then I ate dinner. One of the dancers who I had never met
joined our table. The other musician sitting with us left for a minute and she
had this look in her eyes that screamed “please don’t leave me alone with this
kid.” I tried to relax the situation by making a joke about her fuzzy
sweatshirt, but she just laughed dismissively and didn’t respond. I guess I’m
an elusive person, but the coldness I experience here is pretty dehumanizing
sometimes.
Friday we went to Carnival’s man-made beach in Honduras. One
of the solo guitarists invited me to go snorkeling with him; it was the first
time I’ve been in the ocean since I got here. The water was murky because there
was a tanker drilling up sediment about half a mile from the beach. The
snorkeling was a bit boring, but we went to a small reef and saw a few schools.
When it was over we went to a buffet with jerk shrimp and lobster tails, it was
great to eat real food again.
When I got back to the ship, a rehearsal was sprung on me,
so I hurriedly washed the salt off my body and went to the theater. We went through
the production singer’s replacement show because for some reason the show for
that night had been canceled. It was another one of those fly by the seat of my
pants moments. The show went well for not having rehearsed much. We had a dance
set afterwards and it was a good one, lots of fun.
Today was a very long day for a cruise ship musician. I
worked a whole seven hours, and let me tell you I am out of practice. We had
rehearsal for the show where guests sing in the morning. Then we played our
farewell party which kinda sucked. I played well I suppose but the audience was
not engaged at all so the set had no energy. Then we had three production shows
tonight. The ones that were supposed to be yesterday got rescheduled to today,
and the one that is normally today went on as well. Playing three of those was
exhausting, there’s only so much fake music I can make before it starts to
drive me a little crazy.
One thing I’ve been thinking about is the juxtaposition
between my desire to be nomadic and my difficulty with new social situations.
Why do I continue to place myself in places where I need to start from scratch
when I know that I am not good at that? Maybe it’s just a product of getting
older, but I’m ready to stop moving so much. The silly thing about it though,
is now that I’m getting comfortable here, I want to leave! Well, I guess I
wanted to leave as soon as I got here, but now the possibility of getting out
of here seems much more real. I wanted to give this place a legitimate chance,
and I did (I think.) Now that I’ve really got a feel for it, I thought I would
be able to make a level headed decision about staying or not. Yet, at the
closing of my first month here, I still have no idea if this job is for me or
not. Most of the time I am pretty unhappy or bored, but there are moments of
elation that make it difficult to make a decision about staying or going. It
all really depends on what is waiting for me at home. We’ll see.
You're going to be fine, no matter what happens.
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